Thoughtful deliberate acts of kindness

There has been much attention given to the concept of random acts of kindness. In fact there are challenges and websites galore on this topic. And the health benefits associated with kindness are well documented.

 I, however, believe that there is something altogether different to be gained from a thoughtful deliberate act of kindness.

Let me tell you a story. The university I frequent has parking issues to say the least. Most days, I sit patiently (or not so patiently) waiting for class to change in hopes of snagging a spot before my own class begins. On this particular day, a young man, smiling coyly, waved at me. I forced a half smile and waved back. Not to be deterred by my lack of enthusiasm, he came right up to my window and asked if I was waiting for a parking spot. Astounded, I said yes. Follow me, he replies, I have the perfect one just for you. Somewhat reluctantly I follow, not entirely sure that I haven’t been led astray. Sure enough, he shoes away other cars vying for the prime spot in favour on allowing me first access. I was stunned. I thanked him profusely. He was so proud of himself, smiling and gesturing at the spot he has saved just for me. He flashed a huge toothy grin and saluted as he drove away.

I was on cloud nine for the rest of the day and told everyone the amazing story about the young man who thoughtfully and deliberately chose to be kind to me. It felt really good to think that this person singled out me, to believe that something about me mattered to him. True or not, it still felt great.

And…I was able to thank him…

Whose day could you change with a small thoughtful act? Write to me and tell me your story.